KDRT DALAM PERSEPSI IBU NYAI PESANTREN (Studi Kasus Pesantren-pesantren Cirebon)
Abstract: Violence in The
Islamic Boarding Schools (Pesantren) has become a popular view, but only few
who understand the meaning contained there in. In reality, domestic violence is
very subtle in the world of Pesantren
actors. Women as wives must cover all forms of
violence by husbands as much as possible, if not, then expose the husband or household
disgrace, and it is a sin. This thinking can be understood as domestic violence
is defined as a worship and a test of
faith, sincerity and patience for a wife to the husband. Pesantren
culture played a role in strengthening the thinking of those schools. Appreciation of the values of
service and sincerity is always assessed in the jurisprudence, the
moral, and “munakahaat” studies, impact on behavior and attitudes of students. The pattern of the central “Kitab Kuning” (yellow book)
learning oriented can not be criticized, put the figure of “Ustadz” or “Kiai” as a central information, will
have a negative effect, when applied in the discourse of marriage, particularly the perception of domestic violence. The “Nyai” understand that
all forms of torture in the household is
part of domestic violence. But dogmatic
thinking and theocentric do not dare criticize the “Kitab Kuning”, blocking
their arguments when faced with the reality of
the consequences of the enactment
of the Abolition of Domestic Violence (PKDRT).
Keywords: Domestic Violence,
Pesantren, Nyai, Kitab Kuning
Penulis: Afwah Mumtazah
Kode Jurnal: jpperadabanislamdd100005
