FENOMENA PERNIKAHAN MELALUI TA’ARUF DI PEKANBARU (STUDI FENOMENOLOGI PADA KADER PKS)
ABSTRACT: Recently, the
phenomenon of ta'aruf
marriage has become
familiar in our
society, especially among public figures such as artists already doing
ta'aruf marriage. I n the city of Pekanbaru
wedding ta'aruf by
Moslems also become
a phenomenon in
which there is an increase in
terms of implementation. It
can be seen
from the cadre
of Partai Keadilan Sejaktera (PKS)
are about to get married.
Ta'aruf wedding process
does not occur
in the other party cadres. This study
aims to determine the motives,
meanings and communication experience
PKS cadres who were married through ta'aruf process.
This study uses qualitative
research with phenomenological approach. Informants in this
study were five
cadres who were
married through ta'aruf
process, Using a
snowball sampling
technique.. Data was
collected techniques is
done by participant
observation, interview, and documentation. To achieve the validity of the data in this study,
researchers used the extension of participation and triangulation.
Results from this
study showed that
the motives of
the PKS cadres.
Motifs past (Because motif) form
of theological motifs, basis of religion because of the theological motifs that
have been ingrained in them,
a commitment to build a vision of building a wedding, and believe the
mediator Yag get to know potential mates. While the motive of the future
(in-order to) is the desire to be happy family, mawaddah and
Rohmah, cultivate relationships syar'i, keingianan have
children pious and
courtship after marriage.
Making of PKS
cadres do ta'aruf marriage is a
doctrine as the implementation of Islamic Shari'a, as a media partner and as an exploration of
psychological needs and social control
Communication experiencemPKS cadres do ta'aruf marriage is a pleasant
communication experience includes; the pair know each other from time to time,
received the partner's family, and established cooperation with the
community, while not
pleasant communication experience
includes; busyness couples, families
and relatives of
opposition parties, and
the stigma of
people who said marriage ta'aruf like buying a cat in a
sack.
Penulis: Rizqa Hidayati
Kode Jurnal: jpkomunikasidd160034
