KOMUNIKASI ANTARPRIBADI JARAK JAUH ANTARA ORANGTUA DAN ANAK (Studi Pada Mahasiswa Universitas Riau Yang Berasal Dari Kabupaten Rokan Hulu)
Abstract: Interpersonal
communication between parentas and children is an important role in enhancing
the self discipline of children as a person of character. When parents separate
of distance with their children, thay have to communicate with their children
whom is very difficult to controll them when children still lived with them.
There are problems that caused by lack of parental supervision due to children
can’t control their deviant behavior. This research is done for determining the
effectiveness of long dictance’s interpersonal communication between parents
and children as well long distance’s communication media which used University
of Riau’s student whom are in Rokan Hulu.
This research used qualitative methode with research’s location in Rokan
Hulu. The subject of research is 10 parents and 10 University of Riau’s
students whom selected by purposive technique. In order to obtain the data, the
researcher used three kinds of data collection techniques, such as participant
observation, in-depth interview, and documentation.
The result of research showed the first, that the effectiveness of long
distance’s interpersonal communication between parents and children (study of
University of Riau’s students whom lives in Rokan Hulu), there is openess that
shown by parents rather than children; then deeply empathy that felt by parents
to children rather than children to parents; and being supportive
(supportivennes) parents whom make children feel spirit and always remember
their parentss’ advices; then a positive attitude (positivennes) of parents
when giving the children confidence and showing affection to the children; and
the last equality attitude to be fair among the children and give the freedom
to the children in making a opinion. Second, this long distance’s interpersonal
communication used the visual communication media such as cell phone. Then the
media used audiio visual’s media and social networks such as facebook and
blackberry massanger or BBM.
Keywords: interpersonal
communication, effectiveness of interpersonal communication, long-distance
relationships between parents and children, juvenile delinquency
Penulis: Vani Rasika, Evawani
Elysa Lubis
Kode Jurnal: jpkomunikasidd150219
